- He respects her choices
- Although she had feelings for Damon she chose Stefan because he was the best choice , the one
- The amazing way they met , out of the boy's toilet
- They way Stefan smiles when his close to her
- The way Elena giggles when Stefanis around
- The understanding bond between them
- That Stefan was , is and will always be there for Elena no matter what
- Even if Stefan is broken hearted he doesn't give up on Elena like she didn't when he was a ripper
- They share a realationship based on honesty
- Even if sometimes they lie , they both do it to protect each other from the pain
- Elena accepted Stefan for being a vampire
- Stefan never compared her to Katherine
- He told her she was adopted
- He saved her from the car accident and he found his love
- He taught her how to live again
- He was the reason for Elena to wake up and go to school
- He sold his soul to Klaus in order to protech her and her family
- He respects her friends
- Elena's friends trust him
- He is kind , hot and sweet
- He makes her a better person , a stronger one
- She makes him a better person
- Because Nina is Team Stelena( like she said in one of her interviews ~! )
- Because Stefan is not selfish like Damon
- Because Stefan even if he's in pain he wants the best for Elena
- he wants Elena happy , even if he's not a part of her happiness
- Because she opened up to him.
- Both they are sensitive and good- hearted
- they have chemistry
- because Elena said , "It's always going to be Stefan"
- He has the courage to leave his pride and shed a tear for Elena
- When they broke up, he cried.
- They hated fighting, even if it was fake
- they have the cutest make out sessions
- He makes her glad to be alive
- they tease each other with the sweetest way
- they caan't stop flirting
- he makes her feel safe
- He understands her
- He support her choices
- He is not selfish with her
- he carries the burden of his brother cause he loves him
- They are passionate
- He thinks she's beautiful , not only from the outside
- he speaks highly of her
- They talk about their future together
- The necklace is a symbol of their unbreaking bond and it can't be destroyed
- he sacrifices everything for her
- He never tried to compell her
- He would let her be happy with Damon
- Klaus Ships them !
- Caroline ships them
- Bonnie ships them
- Jenna ships them
- Alaric ships them
- lexi ships her
- She's somethig worth living for
- She believes in him
- They fight for each other
- katherine can't tear them apart or Klaus
- Their love is epic
- They give each other advices
- the only thing stronger for the cravinf for blood is the love for Elena
----->Endgame: It’s not looking good right now, but I still have confidence they’ll be together in the end. Sorry, Delena fans.
Saddest quote: “Before, when I was the ripper, I understood why you cared for him. I practically drove you to it. But now, I can’t do this, Elena. Not anymore.”
----> I think the ‘sire bond’ thing is about losing free will, when you don’t question anything, when you’re at your weakest, and your entire focus is on the person you’re with. There’s a lot of very deep parallels to what it means to be in an emotionally abusive or potentially physically abusive relationship. Without the supernatural cloak, in real life, you have to realize that you do have a say. You have to start thinking about what you want in your life, to break yourself of the sire-bond and you have to be your own hero. It’s sad, it’s scary, but you do have to break yourself from it and not feel that the end all be all is in this other person or that they hold your happiness. You have to realize that you have the strength and you hold your own key to your own happiness.”
What do you mean by “emotion based” Elena’s feelings aren’t real? am i misinterpreting?
JP: Her ‘obeying’ his requests. Compulsion is specific. You’re told to do, you do. Sire bond u have illusion of free will.
Is stefan mad because he thinks damon had sex with elena AFTER they knew how to break the sire bond??? or sex in gerenal?
JP: He’s devastated that they had sex at all, as he has every right to be. He’s mad because Damon lied to him.
how is stefan being a jerk? he’s not running around making crazy accusations. the bond thing explains why she has been acting so weird, and if you’ve been watching this season and paying attention than you would know that that it’s weird if her feelings for damon heightens and her feelings for stefan goes away. don’t worry though, im sure the writers will give elena and damon some on screen time but that’s only because whinny delena fans couldnt let stefan and elena be. there are so many times where i wanted to punch damon too for all of his shadiness, so don’t get all upset for the one (and few) times that stefan actually acts selfish.
Team Stelena 4 ever ....!!!!